Wednesday, June 2, 2010

~ Breastfeeding for Lil' Aliya ~


Alhamdulillah...can you believe it!!

My lil' princess Aliya is turning 1 month TOMORROW!!!

So far I am still breastfeeding (BF) her even though there are times I cater her with formula milk. I know that there are readers out there are so keen giving exclusive BF to their newborn but I have valid reason why cater her both. But I can't denied that BF has a lot of benefits in a lot of ways.

PROS

Now, when it comes to the advantages of breastfeeding, there are many different ones. These advantages affect both the mother and the child. Many medical professionals feel as if breastfeeding is the right choice of nutrition for newborns. This is because of the fact that milk that comes from the breasts contains a high level of nutrients, vitamins, and other essentials that are beneficial to the health. Refer to the list below for a more detailed description of some of the pros of breastfeeding:

1. One of the most common issues that women experience after giving birth is getting all of the weight off that they have acquired while carrying the child. By breastfeeding, the body will naturally burn calories. This will result in less weight, and the extra weight to burn off more quickly.

2. One of the main issues that new parents experience is the many new expenses that are encountered when a child arrives. By breastfeeding, you can save a lot of money annually. There is actually no need to purchase formula when you breastfeed.

3. The next advantage to feeding your child by this method is that there is a lot of flexibility. If you want to feed directly from the breast, you can. If you want to pump the breasts and then store the milk in bottles for later feedings, you can do this as well. This makes feeding extremely simple and convenient.

4. It has been discovered, through scientific studies and medical case studies, that women who feed their child in this manner are less susceptible to developing serious health complications like breast cancer and even ovarian cancer.

5. The next advantage to breastfeeding a newborn child is that this is part of the natural bonding process. It is important to bond as early as possible, and breastfeeding starts on day one of the child’s life!


CONS

Believe it or not, there are actually some cons when it comes to breastfeeding. While these disadvantages can be easily over powered with the advantages, in order to make a decision on whether or not this is the right choice for you and your family, it is only best to consider these things as well. The following list details the disadvantages many have found while breastfeeding:

1. The first disadvantage is that when a mother breastfeeds, it puts a lot of pressure on her. Ultimately, as a mother, you will be responsible for every single feeding that your child experiences. Sure, it is true that you can pump the breasts in order to store milk and/or allow others to feed the baby; this can also prove to be a large hassle.

2. While breastfeeding, you may notice that you feel more tired than usual. This is because this drains a lot of energy from the body. In addition to this, you may start to experience dryness in the nipple area, as well as other aches and pains. These symptoms are generally relieved by various over-the-counter pain medications, but many do feel this is one of the down sides to feeding in this manner.

3. Those that wish to work from home or go back into the workforce may find it difficult to find time to do the things that they need to do on a daily basis. The average newborn feeds approximately three to four hours a day, and for the busy woman, this may prove to be a burden on the schedule.

4. Many women find it uncomfortable to breastfeed in front of other people. This means that special care and consideration should be made when going somewhere because you do not want to have to feed the child while you are away.

5. Breastfeeding has often been deemed as a difficult task to accomplish. Learning how to perform this can be a bit challenging and you may find yourself becoming upset or anxious as a result of it.


Sewajarnya setiap ibu haruslah memberikan bayi mereka kolostrum yang sangat berkhasiat itu demi kesihatan dan pertumbuhan bayi yang tercinta. Sesungguhnya kasih ibu sentiasa padu dan salah satu caranya untuk membuktikan kasih itu adalah dengan memberikan nutrisi yang terbaik untuk anak – anak. Dan sesungguhnya, tiada nutrisi lain yang sebaik dan seistimewa susu ibu. Hapuskanlah kerisauan mengenai mitos – mitos yang menyelubungi kolostrum ini kerana sesungguhnya setiap ciptaan yang Allah jadikan itu adalah yang sebaiknya untuk umat manusia. Maka yakinlah, jika seseorang ibu itu mampu mengandung dan melahirkan anaknya, maka mengapa pula dia tidak mampu menyusukan anak itu dengan susunya sendiri? Berdasarkan jumlah kolostrum pada 3 hari pertama kelahiran, ramai ibu merasa risau dan berpendapat bahawa susunya tidak mencukupi untuk bayi itu. Tidak ramai yang mengetahui bahawa jumlah yang sedikit (37 ml) itulah sebenarnya yang hanya diperlukan oleh bayi. Itulah sejumlah yang kecil untuk keperluan dan saiz perut yang kecil. Sesungguhnya persoalan susu tidak cukup pada hari – hari pertama kelahiran adalah tidak wajar diutarakan. Jika ibu itu mengharapkan susunya mengalir mencurah – curah sehingga 500ml pada hari pertama, memanglah mustahil. Ini kerana bayi yang masih kecil itu tidak memerlukan jumlah susu yang banyak pada mulanya. Indah sungguh ciptaan Mu ya Allah. Kau jadikan sesuatu itu cukup berdasarkan keperluannya. Tidak lebih dan tidak kurang. Mengapa masih ramai yang ragu dengan ciptaan-Mu yang satu ini? Sedangkan Kau juga telah berfirman yang maksudnya: Dan Kami wajibkan manusia berbuat baik kepada kedua ibu bapanya; ibunya telah mengandungnya dengan menanggung kelemahan demi kelemahan (dari awal mengandung hingga akhir menyusunya), dan tempoh menceraikan susunya ialah dalam masa dua tahun; (dengan yang demikian) bersyukurlah kepadaKu dan kepada kedua ibubapamu; dan (ingatlah), kepada Akulah jua tempat kembali (untuk menerima balasan). (surah Luqman: 14).


" Penyusuan susu ibu merupakan pengalaman yang dipenuhi kasih sayang dan keintiman di antara anda dan bayi dan hanya berlaku untuk satu tempoh yang sangat singkat. Sebelum sempat anda menyedarinya, bayi anda sudah pun membesar dan perhubungan anda dengannya telah melalui satu dimensi baru.

Jadi, pergunakanlah masa ini bersama bayi dengan sebaik-baiknya. Berseronoklah dan hargainya dan apabila bayi melangkah ke peringkat berikut dalam kehidupannya, anda akan terkenang kembali dan bersyukur kerana anda sudah memberinya yang terbaik apabila dia sangat memerlukannya".


Wednesday, May 26, 2010

~ Our Lil' Princess Nuroll Aliya Fadhilah Bt. Mohd Fadzly~


Alhamdulillah....

Syukur....finally I safely delivered a baby girl name NUROLL ALIYA FADHILAH BT. MOHD FADZLY on 6 May 2010 @ 3.27 am (Khamis malam Jumaat) di HUKM Specialist, Bandar Tun Razak, Cheras. It was a moment to be remembered throughout my entire life and also towards my hubby.

Di hening senja 5 May 2010 sejurus waktu maghrib, perasaan yang berbelah bahagi terhadap perubahan diri menguatkan lagi bahawa masanya sudah tiba. Ingin ku kongsikan detik dan sebahagian perbualan yang dapat ku ingati along the way to delivered my lil' princess....

5 MAY 2010

~ 7:45pm ~
Discovered that I was having this liquid or fluid running down my thigh...still not knowing that it was a sign that the time has come. Called my mum explaining the situation and she was shockingly screaming asking me to go to the hospital. Yet since there is no pain I again ignore it.

~ 8:00pm ~
Called hubby since he is still at work and told him that there are high probability that I am expecting soon. He sounded nervous ...more nervous than myself. With a simple answer he mentioned he is on his way now or never...Had a small giggle listening how worried he was...

~ 8:10pm ~
My SIL gave a call saying that she got a call from my hubby and they are on their way to my house together with my MIL. Aiyo... I do not meant to trouble them yet since my hubby sounded serious explaining my situation so they are also alarm...Yet I am still cool at one end...

~ 8:30pm ~
The in-laws arrived accordingly and soon after my hubby reached along home. After further discussion I was to be brought to the emergency for further confirmation of my situation since my due date was 6 May 2010.

~ 9:30pm ~
Spoken to my hubby that I was so hungry and still wanted to stop by for a lite meal before anything happend. Imaging that I was somehow craving for "thosai" and also teh ais...had them accordingly but first time ever I did not finish it...funny somehow I felt that some people at the restaurant can feel that I was so nearly to delivered and yet still having meal at my favourite shop...ihihi...makes me laugh every time I recall it.

~ 11:30 pm ~
Reached the emergency of HUKM and straight head to the do the further check up. With me was my hubby and my MIL.At that point of time my heart started to crumble...I am starting to get scared...None stop I was saying such prayers so that everything is in a good condition.

6 MAY 2010

~ 12:00 am ~
Laying in the check up room alone..hearing my baby heart beat makes me wanna cry...takut pun ada jugak memandangkan this is my first ever experience. Then came a nurse saying that they can't get a better record of my baby heart beat since the baby somehow is sleeping. They gave a good push to my tummy trying to wake the baby up. Alhamdulillah the baby respond positively.Sempat lah jugak my MIL and hubby melawat kat dalam since their are worried apa lah kita buat lama betul...hihi...concern tu...

NURSE: Sakit tak? Ada rasa contraption tak?
ME: Takde pulak....
NURSE: Huh?? Takde...betul nie?? Bukan apa..laluan dah buka 4cm tapi ketuban puan tak pecah lagi....
ME: (Blur)..biar betul...habis tu macam mana nie....??
NURSE: Nampaknya saya pecah kan air ketuban puan dulu then saya akan call Prof. Hashim for further advise.
ME: Yelah...(padahal dalam hati punyalah takut)

After seeking Prof. Hashim advice...

NURSE: Nampaknya puan dah boleh masuk wad bersalin yek...nanti kami siapkan yek..
ME: What!!! masuk wad bersalin...???Mana hubby nie...aiyo...serious babe!!

~ 1:30 am ~
Heading to wad bersalin bersama MIL and my hubby...hati berdebar-debar...Tuhan saje yang tahu..Once reached the nurse bagi jap for my final toilet moment and tukar baju...Hubby was always with me...At the same time my mom,opah and my lil bro is on the way to HUKM...Gosh my contraption is getting painful every minutes.

~ 1:50 am ~
Nurse came in and asked whether I wanted for any epidhural jap....with my brave heart I shook my head saying "No!"...hubby just stand beside me supporting my decision...how much I appreciate him for being at my side..

~ 2:30 am ~
Contraption is getting worse...had gas suction for making me wave throughout my pain..yet it did not work..aiyo..painful man...hubby was there to calm me down but the pain was so crushing...rupanya ini rasa orang nak bersalin...

~2:45 am ~
Called the nurse and seek for epidhural jap...but it was too late baby!!! So no choice I had to face it....the pain while delivering my baby...Mulut kumat kamit membaca surah yang boleh menenangkan perasaan nie...Tangan digeggam erat si suami ensuring that he was there...

~ 3:27 am ~
Alhamdulillah....sekujur tubuh ditatang menandakan diriku selamat bersalin...me and hubby was so relief that everything when smoothly...Sejenak insan baru itu dilahirkan..segala keperitan hilang sekelip mata...Itulah kuasa Yang Maha Esa...dan sesungguhnya aku amat bertuah dapat merasai kenikmatan menjadi seorang ibu...

Here are some pictures of my new born princess...






And here are some pictures as at to day....She have grown and we are so proud of her...Alhamdulillah kami telah melengkapi sebuah keluarga yang bahagia....Amin!!!





Bermula satu lagi episod keluarga bahagia.....

Saturday, February 6, 2010

~ Madzlan's Farewell Dinner @ Sri Ayutthaya, Damansara ~

So...it was the first so called the company dinner being held due to Madzlan's farewell party. He's leaving after serving about 7 years in IFSB...isn't that long enough to be in one place.Well asmentioned that he leave with dignity and honour....wonder whether I will have that passion to last that much long...huhu...

The dinner took place at the Sri Ayutthaya, Damansara and almost everyone attended the ocassion...


The food was great but I think its too pricey for me at this point of time to take out my hubby there...maybe next time ye sayang...I guess Hajris Mamak is good enough for both of us to hang out rite...affordable and just nice...hihi...don't get me wrong but one day I treat you ok..

Here are some picture taken by Bro Mizuan that I would like to share....

And finally the whole team...



But among all there is one picture that made me really impress and really thank Bro Mizuan...here it is..

Was I to blotted ...hihi...there was Prudence rubbing my tummy with my new born in it saying "Sayang...surely you are full after all what your mummy ate!!"

It was a nice moment that capture sponteneously....hihih..

Wonder what will be next in IFSB....

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

~ Nama baby apa yek ~



Gosh...there is about 3 months to go before my due date and since then myself and hubby are so much in discussion about what name to be given to our new born baby girl. Eventhough we were so much looking forward for a new born baby boy, an additional "pink" in the family with be merrier to right? Yang ye nya kami dah prepare name untuk baby boy but bila tahu it was a girl, suddenly we find it very much difficult to find a suitable name.Or is it myself are to fussy in picking it....hihi..


I started off buying books related to pregnancy and also how to give names to baby. Dalam buku tu ada banyak nama baby berserta dengan maknanya. The things is when time change even names to be given to baby evolve..huhu..makes me more confuse is choosing it. Kebanyakkan bagi nama anak memang dah ada makna, tapi most people nowadays especially the "malay" tend to give nama yang panjang. Kekadang berpatah-patah sampai panjang berjela. Lagipun nama tu kan sebagai doa.


So ... apa nama anak kami ye?

So far we agreed to remain part of my name.."nuroll"...are we are still working to make the ending of it...whatever it is...a name remain a name as long as it carries the right meaning for our beautiful daughter...and I believe my hubby are working hard on it so that both of us are happy and when our daughter are grown up she will also like her name so much..

Thus,papa..let's get to work ya...


Sunday, January 17, 2010

~ Our Mi Adidas...Thanks To YOUREKA~


Still remember on one of my post that we attended the YOUREKA contest at KL Live...it was last year...25 November 2009...it was a blast and it was my first time entering the arena..most of the time a lot of concert are held but I was never interested to go...the environment did not make me believe I should belong there...hihi...eventhough that time I felt the same plus I was preggy...but demi suami tercinta kita pun pergi...also accompanied by my BIL, adeb hafiz...ada lah jugak kawan kan...

~ hubby & me ~

~ adeb & me ~
There was so much event going on...but I had it mark on me...hihi..Yahoo sticker tatoo...menarik kan...felt to put everywhere..hihhih...


Nie pulak masa hubby kita masuk those event....



Well...as mentioned he only manage to the 3rd finale level and the prize it 2 pair Mi Adidas...customization was made in Pavillion, KualaLumpur...



Out of the 2 pairs...he got one for himself and he gave me as my birthday present ...hihi..besh!!my own Mi Adidas....he said for the comfortness of me with our newly born baby that I am carrying...jaga kaki katanya...sayang eb..!!!


~this was for his shoe ~

~ this is mine...my only Mi Adidas~

And this is the real thing...




Again, thank you so much sayang...I guess saya nie menumpang tuah eb ajelah...hihi..kalau nak beli tu memang tak mampulah kan..I love you so much...

Nie yang kaki asyik rasa nak berjalan aje...hihi..



Wednesday, January 13, 2010

~ Strecth Marks During Pregnancy ~

One of the common results of rapid pregnancy weight gain is stretch marks. Officially known as striae gravidarum, stretch marks occur in about 50-90% of women in the second half of pregnancy. Stretch marks do fade over time but they do not completely go away. For that reason, it is no surprise that expectant mothers are motivated to try to prevent stretch marks during their pregnancies when possible.

Stretch Marks During Pregnancy is More Likely to Occur with A Family History

If female relatives on the mother's side had stretch marks during pregnancy, it is more likely that the expectant mother will also get them. In addition to a having a family history, striae gravidarum is more likely to occur with any of the following risk factors:

  • younger mothers
  • having multiples
  • having a larger baby
  • corticosteroid use

Treatment for Stretch Marks Includes Daily Massage with Topical Ointment

When experts have researched treatment options for stretch marks, they have found mixed results. It is possible that having a daily massage may be helpful in the prevention of stretch marks, but it is not clear which ingredient in various brands of stretch mark creams or lotions seems to do the trick.

As compared to the group of women who did not massage with stretch mark cream, fewer women in both research studies who used a topical ointment or cream developed stretch marks. One stretch mark cream used in a study contained the following ingredients: centella asiatica extract, alpha tocopherol and collagen-elastin hydrolysates. In the other study, participants used an ointment that contained tocopherol, panthenol, hyaluronic acid, elastin and menthol.

Researchers were not able to conclude which ingredient in the two types of creams helped to prevent stretch marks. Perhaps it is not the specific ointment or ingredient used, but the act of having a daily massage that helps to moisturize the skin and prevent stretch marks.



Yup...last weekend me and hubby took our time to drop by the Malaysia Chocolate Fair 2010 @ Midvalley. Guess what..time was not wasted at all. For the first time we eventually bought something upon my pregnancy term...Palmer Cocoa Butter Cream..


It was so cheap which initially the price was RM41.00 but then we bought it at only RM23.00!! Thank to my darling hubby for his gift and advise as for the best of me and his newborn girl!!

By the way...those who knew me know that I am some sort of a chubby girl...thus maybe my strech mark is not so obvious till know. I am so glad and so far there is no allergies in any way either myself or my baby.

Semoga semuanya berjalan dengan lancar till the big day!!!

Amin...


Tuesday, January 12, 2010

~ In My 24th Weeks & Finally A Princess~


Say hello to my little dah-ling inside of me who's been moving actively everytime the doctor scanned and is causing me all this excitement and also making me feeling whether everything is going to be orait, but hey I still love you. I love my newly princess....Fazrene's Junior...


I am officially 24 weeks now though the tummy has not make its grand appearance yet as many people mentined it, I can feel my pants is getting tighter and harder to button, though I still can wear 'em and I wear my kain most of the time without even bother to zip it. Luckily the kain manage to stay put and not fall down!

Fadzly has been talking to the baby a looooot of time and keep asking me about the baby. The other day he asked me "mama, baby sihat?" or "mama, baby nak makan ape?"...all I know that he has been so excited and putting all his attention to me and our baby...how much I appreciate his concern and loving manner..

I still worry about the giving birth part though. Still anxious in making decision whether by chosing private hospital is the best choice to give birth.Since we'll are hoping that either company is giving the maternity allowance thus we opt for private I've been thinking looong and super hard. After all I have history of being chicken shit in the government hospital and ended up with hours of long waiting.


Since the vicinity are my main concern, thus we opt for HUKM Specialist Centre. Its near to my house and we think it is also reachable to all family later on. Never mind lah, we think we still have a long way to go and think and then re-think and re-think again.

Hope everything will be fine! Aminn..