Showing posts with label Love and Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love and Marriage. Show all posts

Monday, July 5, 2010

~ Kenapa Wanita Menangis ? ~

Suatu ketika, ada seorang anak laki-laki yang bertanya pada ibunya.

"Ibu, mengapa Ibu menangis?".
Ibunya menjawab, "Sebab aku wanita".
"Aku tak mengerti" kata si anak lagi.
Ibunya hanya tersenyum dan memeluknya erat.
"Nak, kamu memang tak akan pernah mengerti...."

Kemudian anak itu bertanya pada ayahnya. "Ayah, mengapa Ibu menangis?,
Ibu menangis tanpa sebab yang jelas". sang ayah menjawab,
"Semua wanita memang sering menangis tanpa alasan".
Hanya itu jawaban yang bisa diberikan ayahnya.

Sampai kemudian si anak itu tumbuh menjadi remaja,
ia tetap bertanya-tanya, mengapa wanita menangis.
Hingga pada suatu malam, ia bermimpi dan bertanya kepada Tuhan,
"Ya Tuhan, mengapa wanita mudah sekali menangis?"

Dalam mimpinya ia merasa seolah Tuhan menjawab,

"Saat Kuciptakan wanita, Aku membuatnya menjadi sangat utama.
Kuciptakan bahunya, agar mampu menahan seluruh beban dunia dan isinya,
walaupun juga bahu itu harus cukup nyaman dan lembut
untuk menahan kepala bayi yang sedang tertidur.

Kuberikan wanita kekuatan untuk dapat melahirkan dan mengeluarkan bayi dari rahimnya,
walau kerap berulangkali ia menerima cerca dari anaknya itu.

Kuberikan keperkasaan yang akan membuatnya tetap bertahan,
pantang menyerah saat semua orang sudah putus asa.

Kepada wanita, Kuberikan kesabaran untuk merawat keluarganya walau letih,
walau sakit, walau lelah, tanpa berkeluh kesah.

Kuberikan wanita, perasaan peka dan kasih sayang
untuk mencintai semua anaknya dalam kondisi dan situasi apapun.
Walau acapkali anak-anaknya itu melukai perasaan dan hatinya.

Perasaan ini pula yang akan memberikan kehangatan
pada bayi-bayi yang mengantuk menahan lelap.
Sentuhan inilah yang akan memberikan kenyamanan
saat didekap dengan lembut olehnya.

Kuberikan wanita kekuatan untuk membimbing suaminya
melalui masa-masa sulit dan menjadi pelindung baginya.
Sebab bukannya tulang rusuk yang melindungi setiap hati dan jantung agar tak terkoyak.

Kuberikan kepadanya kebijaksanaan dan kemampuan
untuk memberikan pengertian dan menyadarkan
bahwa suami yang baik adalah yang tak pernah melukai istrinya.
Walau seringkali pula kebijaksanaan itu akan menguji setiap kesetiaan
yang diberikan kepada suami agar tetap berdiri sejajar,
saling melengkapi dan saling menyayangi.

Dan akhirnya Kuberikan ia air mata agar dapat mencurahkan perasaannya.
Inilah yang khusus Kuberikan kepada wanita,
agar dapat digunakan kapan pun ia inginkan.
Hanya inilah kelemahan yang dimiliki wanita,
walaupun sebenarnya air mata ini adalah air mata kehidupan".


Monday, June 28, 2010

~ Our First Father's Day Celebration ~

So...Our first ever Father's Day celebration...Me,Hubby and our lil' princess Aliya...!!!

It was 20 May 2010 and I am so blur how to celebrate the Father's Day to my hubby...I know it meant so much to him since this is his first ever celebration since being a father to our newborn princess Aliya on 6 May 2010..

Yet, I just basically complete my 44 days of confinement and I was hand full with all the routine to be arrange and learn with Aliya...cleaning up things since I was about to resume back to work...and thus I look almost like this...Can you imaging it...


So all I had to say to my darling hubby was to take and treat him out for a lunch and he was happy enough to accept it...But definitely I choose a place which it was the first ever both of us ever dining there....Guess where?


Yes ... It was Tony Roma's located at Midvalley which initially the que was so long but we had advantage since it was only 2 of us and a small space to cater Aliya's prem.

Funny things is we both was so into the enjoyment of the foods sampai lupa nak ambik gambar...hihih...Apa pun we really enjoy it and hope to dine again on a normal occassion.

To hubby, hope you really enjoy my treat and thank you so much for being a great friend, husband and now a definitely a good start as a father.

I love you sayang....

Thursday, June 3, 2010

~' My First Ever Mother's Day Gift ~

For the first time in my 28 years of my life, I am called as a mother on 6 May 2010 when I delivered my lil' princess Nuroll Aliya Fadhilah. And with that I was so lucky to celebrate my first ever Mother's Day on 9 May 2010. There is no words to describe how happy and thankful I am to be given a chance by nature to carry the title as a "mother".


Myself and hubby did put a moment of discussion on how will our lil' princess called us. Mummy and Daddy ke?Ibu and Ayah ke?Mama and Papa ke?...Pening jugak..but we came into a conclusion that finally both of us will start to used Ummi and Abi to Aliya...sounds like the most suitable called to our baby towards us.

My hubby also take effort for the first time ever bought me a Mother's Day gift....I was so touch for his passion and commitment in rising up his family especially Aliya. He wanted to give the best for his precious daughter. Guess what he bought....







At the same time he also bought be a nipple cream to soothe me during my breastfeeding with Aliya...as I say he love both of us so much and I totally appreciate him so much...Thank you so much sayang....



On Mothers Day, pay your most humble tribute to Mother!
Tribute To Mother



Mothers are everything for us when we are small...our lives revolve around her. For everything that we need we call mother. To protect us from all perceivable dangers we want her around us. To take us out we hold her arms. To kiss away our wounds we run to her. And for a warm hug and love we look for her. She is the focal point of our lives, the greatest human being in the world or should we say divinity on earth. On the special occasion of Mothers Day pay tribute to your mother - the greatest blessing of God on you.

On Mothers Day Thank your Mother
There is simply no way we can ever really thank mother for all she has done for us. She is the one who will be awake all night when we are sick. Praying to God to make us well and be ever ready to bear the pain that we may be experiencing. She is the one to wake up early in the morning to make the nicest tiffin and endure all our tantrums. Mothers are the ones who would forever complain that we are not eating enough or not eating right. They would cook all sorts of things so that we be strong and healthy. Mothers infact, worry more for our examinations than we must. They would take pains to complete our school projects leaving all other works behind while we play around with friends or just while away time watching movies.

On Mothers Day Apologise to your Mother
Mothers are the one on whom we put all the blame for our failures. We would not hesitate once to point her single faux pas though she would not miss even a slightest opportunity to praise us. Isn't it tough to imagine how she must have borne our temper tantrums when we were teenagers. And how hard we must have made her life by behaving so rude and difficult. And yet she was so astonishingly cool. It it easy for the kids to be so demanding from parents, specially mothers as we take her affection and care so much for granted. Most often to the extent of selfishness. Mothers Day is the right time to apologise for all the troubles that we gave to our moms, without even realising at most times how troublesome we must have been to her.

Celebrate Mothers Day with your Dear Mother
Mothers Day is the perfect day to celebrate the joys of having a mother. It is the time to make amends for not being able to spend quality time with her. So turn your wrongs right by making all efforts to give a perfect Mothers Day to your mother. Think about her likes and dislikes about gifts and idea on celebration and act accordingly. Strive to make Mothers Day absolutely hassle free for your mother and take the responsibilities on yourself for a day. Pamper her a little on this special day of hers just as she pampers you all the year round. Give her a warm hug and a big kiss as you wish her a Happy Mothers
Day!

Monday, November 30, 2009

~ 40 Weeks - My First Journey Through Pregnancy ~

A moment that I will never forget!!

Yes my first ever pregnancy!!! Can you believe it...neither could I actually but I am!!

On October 14th, 2009 some how or rather I had a fever which bring my and my hubby for a check up at Clinic Family @ Bandar Tasik Selatan. Further discussion was made and I was advise to take a pregnancy test and the result came beautifully unexpected...


Yes, I have been confirm to be pregnant with almost 3 months consuming!!! I could not imaging how my initial reaction towards this moment. What I remember I ran to my hubby and cried telling him that we are going to be a parent soon!! He was so delighted and gave me a big smile and kiss!!

So many things ran into my mind....I was terribly happy yet I was also scared....

My hubby called everyone and spread the good news and we are so happy to hear their reaction.

Again, this is just my initial writing in regards to my pregnancy and I will write more about it along the way...

Wow..things surely change around myself and hubby in this next few months and I guess I will be looking just like this by the time I am reaching my 40 weeks...



Monday, May 18, 2009

~ Marriage Is.... ~


Marriage Is...: Filling in the Rest of the Sentence

1. Not always easy.

2. Sometimes aggravating.

3. About needing to trade places (i.e. putting yourself in your spouse's shoes) from time to time. (Especially helpful to do when they're upset and biting but you're not sure why. Seeing life from their eyes can help figure out what's troubling them, which in turns help you figure out how to best be there for them.)

4. Getting satisfaction not from all your spouse does to make you happy, but from all you do that brings him or her happiness.

5. Adding extra crushed red peppers to the spaghetti sauce and chili to make it hotter than you like to accommodate your spouse's taste buds. (Alternatively, it's leaving out some peppers when you know your spouse prefers a more mild seasoning.)

6. Being comfortable with being vulnerable and trusting your heart to another.

7. Staying healthy and growing old together.

8. Realizing sometimes memory fails and details are lost, but the heart never forgets what's important.

9. Sharing dessert.

10. Picking up the slack when your spouse isn't able to.

11. Being able to both accept and forgive when an "I'm sorry" is offered.

12. Learning how to say "I'm sorry."

13. Saying "I'm sorry" when you don't know why you should have to other than you know it'll help restore harmony.

14. Extending your hand to offer comfort and reassurance when things get tough or scary.

15. Saying what you mean, when you mean it, tactfully and respectfully.

16. Respecting your spouse's opinions, inclinations, and hobbies.

17. Cherishing each married moment.

18. Being able to make each other laugh whether you're rich or poor, having good times or bad, in sickness and in health.

19. Listening more and talking less.

20. Remembering not to get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life. (I see this saying in catalogs all the time for pictures and plaques and stuff. I thought it's message beared repeating.)

Out of the 20 listed items above, I am still struggling to fulfill most of it. All I know I will work so hard to made him know that I love him so much....